The decision to transition an aging loved one into long-term care can be a difficult and involved process. Many factors will likely come into play when making such a complicated and serious decision.
What is Long Term Care?
Long-term care is a complex term that can involve a variety of care scenarios.
Basically, long-term care is a service that generally involves skilled nursing care for medical conditions and 24-hour supervision for seniors that are no longer able to provide sufficient care for themselves. Options for long-term care consist of moving to a nursing home or residential care facility or arranging the services of a live-in caregiver.
Eligibility for Long-Term Care Subsidies in Ontario
There are government subsidies available for some long-term care residents in Ontario. Eligibility is based on a range of factors, including:
- Health status
- Type of long-term care accommodation (only basic accommodation is covered)
- Income
- Applicant must already be receiving:
- Old age pension
- Ontario disability support
- Guaranteed income supplement
You must fill out an application form and provide several supporting documents to determine eligibility.
Helping your Loved One Transition to Long Term Care
Transitioning to a long-term care facility is a big move for seniors and their families. Not only is the move itself stressful but seniors are forced to say goodbye to the comfort of home. In many cases, the person moving has lived in the house or neighbourhood for years, possibly even their whole lives.
Also, many seniors see this move as a loss of independence. Positive reassurance and an optimistic attitude toward the move can significantly help.
Some ways to help make the transition to long-term care a smooth one may include:
- Be patient
- Help your loved one get closure
- Reorganize
- Create a comfortable new home
- Talk to the staff
- Stay involved
Be Patient
Patience is paramount when helping a loved one move to a long-term care facility. This move will likely take a considerable emotional, mental, and physical toll on your elderly relative. Refusing the process before they are ready will only end in frustration and resentment.
Moving to a new residence with a lot less storage space will mean getting rid of a lot of personal items and property. Going through everything to decide what is to be kept and what is to be purged is going to take time. Try to be as patient and compassionate as possible to ease the hardship.
Get Closure
It is not easy to move away from friends and family and leave the house that provided years of comfort behind. A home is more than just an inanimate object due to the good times and memories created there.
A goodbye celebration is usually a nice solution, maybe a special dinner with friends and family to say farewell.
Reorganize
Downsizing is pretty much inevitable when moving to a residential care unit. Some memorable items can be stored with family and friends, but many pieces of furniture and other items in the house must go. This, again, requires time and patience. Getting familiar with the layout and measurement of the new space will provide a clearer picture of what can be moved and what can’t.
New Residence Décor
One of the best ways to help your loved one adjust to their new surrounding is to decorate it with the familiar comforts of home. Putting up pictures of loved ones and bringing along a favourite old chair, books, music, and other intimate items can make a big difference in comfortably settling in.
Talk to the Staff
Getting to know the staff at the long-term care facility can also be quite beneficial. Find out who your loved one’s new primary caregiver is and get their contact information. This can help bring peace of mind, knowing what kind of support they are receiving.
Building a good relationship with caregivers can help to get more information about daily operations, routines, and other essential services. You can also let caregivers know they can contact you anytime with any concerns.
Stay Involved
One reason many seniors are so reluctant to move to a long-term care facility is the fear that they will be forgotten. Ask staff members what you can do to assist with ongoing care, and visit as often as possible. You can also take your loved ones out for excursions now and then for a bit of excitement.
Long-term care facilities provide 24-hour resident-focused care for the elderly who need nursing care, behavioural support, dietetics and nutritional support, and medical and social support. Sometimes the government-mandated minimum level of care isn’t enough for many seniors.
That’s where Promyse can help with long-term care.
If your parent or loved one needs to be bathed or washed more than twice a week (the minimum standard set by the Ontario government), we can assist with this. We can also help with feeding, eating, and drinking.
Staff at nursing homes may be stretched thin and are not meeting the physical needs of your parent or loved one. We can help frail seniors with toileting, general hygiene, and other daily tasks to keep them comfortable and safe.
We can provide companionship, socialization, and mental stimulation for your parent or loved one in a nursing home.
